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你学校/大学里的顶尖学生今天都在做什么?(一)
2019-07-08 翻译熊 3931 0 0  

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Manali Pandey, Gazetted Officer at MPPSC (2017-present)
AnsweredJun 26
Originally Answered: Whathappened to the topper of your school/college/university? What is he/she doingnow?
There was this girl in my college veryquiet but happy. She surely was hated by the guys of her class for being soarrogant . Which i assume was not arrogance but her being uncomfortable in aclass of CIVIL engineering with 55 boys all around , and because she was froman all girls school she coouldnt find her self comfortable with this drasticchange .
This girl mostly looked really confidentexcept where somebody tried to befriend her. Sometimes i had seen her sit aloneand figure out how to pass time as even though people would approach her , shewas bad at small talk.
During the 4 years of B tech i had seenher grow in academics from a class topper to a university gold medalist . Shesecured the highest in history of the Engineering University of Madhya Pradeshfor scoring 93.8 % which was only considering the theory not practicals . Thechancellor of MP awarded her the gold medal . Our entire college at the time ofresults knew her role number and were logging in to see her marks and theywould come searching for her to ask how had she managed to do it . As it was asmall town of jabalpur and it was a private institute there could have been noway that anyone could have guided her to the top.

Manali Pandey, MPPSC公报主任(2017-至今)
我的大学里有个女孩安静而又快乐。她被她班上的男生讨厌,肯定是因为她太傲慢了。我想这并不是她的自大,而是她在土木工程专业的班级里感到不自在,班上有55个男生,而且因为她来自女校,所以她无法适应这种剧烈的变化。
这个女孩大多数时候看起来非常自信,除了有人想和她交朋友。有时我看到她一个人坐着,想办法打发时间,尽管人们会接近她,但她不善于闲聊。
在理工大学的四年里,我见证了她从班级第一名成长为大学金牌得主。她获得了中央邦工程大学历史上最高的分数。下议院议长授予她金牌。结果出来的时候,我们整个学院都知道她的编号,都来看她的分数,他们会来找她,问她是怎么做到的。因为这里是贾巴尔普尔的一个小镇,而且是一所私立学院,因此没有人可以指导她。



I know her . She is a simple girl. She loves small towners, no show offpeople. She made really good friends with two such people who had accepted herwith her success . This girl would get 2 extra books from library (toppers got2 extra books issued ) apart from 4 , these 2 extra books she would give to her2 friends every single time .
She then joined made easy after b tech . Nothing notable happened for 2years in her career . She surely experienced the lowest as a few of her friendswere placed in some good companies through NICMAR . One of her best friendseven got a job as junior engineer in the municipal corporation . She didn'tland anywhere.
The story continues to the time 2015 an year after graduation , she got toknow of her brothers OCD … which was quite severe and that very time there wasan exam MPPSC for the post of Sub Divisional Officer in the state. She felt helpless, only because of parents support was she able to appear in the exam .
She cleared both the pre and mains . Before mains her brother triedcommitting suicide , failed . She ran to Bengaluru to be with him . She wantedto go back to her coaching to prepare for UPSC as she was good and fresh withtopics because of her recent preparation for MPPSC . She gave upthat idea andrather chose to be with her brother and family at this mental health hospitalcalled NIMHANS bengaluru .

我认识她。她是一个单纯的女孩。她喜欢小城的人,从不炫耀。她和两个这样的人交了很好的朋友,他们因为她的成功而接纳了她。除了四本书以外,这个女孩会从图书馆得到额外的两本书(顶尖学生会得到额外的两本书),这两本书她每次都会给她的两个朋友。
之后,在她的职业生涯中,没有什么值得注意的事情发生。她的一些朋友通过NICMAR进入了一些不错的公司,她的经历毫无疑问是最少的。她最好的朋友之一甚至在市政公司找到了一份初级工程师的工作。她哪儿都没被聘用。
故事一直延续到2015年,也就是她毕业的那一年,她知道了她的弟弟得了强迫症,非常严重,就在那个时候,她参加了一个MPPSC考试,考的是州的副区长。她感到很无助,因为只有在父母的支持下,她才能参加考试。
…………
她放弃了这个想法,而是选择和她的兄弟和家人一起住在一家叫做NIMHANS bengaluru的精神康复医院。

Fast forward to an year. MPPSC interview results came in March 2017 andshe was selected as SDO RES under the Ministry Of Rural Development .
Fast forward to now 2019 . Its been 2 years of services in the departmentand she has gained trust of the commissioner , visits Delhi often for all govtmeetings, represents the state in Interstate exchange programs .
April 2018 after losing a long fight with OCD her brother leaves the world. While She was away with her work travelling .
Its been an year to his death she still goes to work with a smile ,without showing how the death has changed her completely, takes best care ofher parents and has made bold choices to not marry any man for money or a manwith power just for ego .
Well i know when somebody has that attitude to work hard they will lead afairly beautiful life . Hard work , Sincerity is an Attitude .
Yes that girl is me.

快进一年。MPPSC访谈结果于2017年3月公布,她被选为农村发展部的SDO RES。
快进到2019年。她在这个部门已经工作了2年,她赢得了专员的信任,经常去德里参加所有的政府会议,代表国家参加州际交流项目。
2018年4月,在与强迫症长期斗争失败后,她的弟弟离开了这个世界,那时她正外出工作出差。
弟弟去世后的一年她仍然带着微笑上班,完全没有表明死亡改变了她, 她很照顾自己的父母,并做出了大胆的选择,不嫁给任何为了钱的男人,也不嫁给因自负而拥有权力的男人。
我知道当一个人有这种努力工作的态度时,他们都会过上相当美好的生活。努力工作,真诚是一种态度。
是的,那个女孩就是我。

What really matters to me after seeing success and failures in career ,death of a loved one is that , the process to success largely requiressacrifices at every step of the way . Everybody in one way is a warrior . Weall have a story to tell . Embrace yourself , pat on your shoulder that you aregoing on with life and havent stopped.
This is not self praise it is a reminder to myself of all my struggles andme still alive , little broken , yet facing everyday with a smile .
This is my family . Would sacrifice anything for them . Only if i couldget my brother back.
After tating it all at 26- fame, power , failure , being at a mentalhealth hospital , process of mental health treatment in india ( which sucks )and sudden death of the most loved one . I am breathing still .
thanks for reading.
Edit 1 - i want to share a page from my brother’s register which he wrotewhen he was ill . His mind couldnt figure out writing , in pure O there isperfection for everything..its really painful but one part of the brain canprocess that the other part is not letting me do things normally .
this is what will keep me going.
malay’s sister

在经历了事业上的成功和失败,亲人的去世后,对我来说真正重要的是,通往成功的过程在很大程度上需要在每一步都做出牺牲。每个人在某种程度上都是战士。我们都有故事要讲。拥抱你自己,拍拍你的肩膀,你的生活还在继续,没有停止。
这不是自我表扬,而是提醒自己所有的挣扎,提醒自己还活着,有点破碎,但每天都要面带微笑。